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Coming out on the otherside....brighter?  

partygald 41F
3081 posts
6/27/2020 2:27 am

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6/29/2020 12:06 am
Coming out on the otherside....brighter?

Been trying to post for a looong while now. This (blogging) was supposed to be my therapy but who fucking knew locking everyone up at home would have made us all sooo damn busy?! 😝. Seriously though, shit had happened, blew up, blew over, and started all over again, a few times over now. But! I’m actually Glad it happened. I suppose everything does happen for a reason and for now things appear to be better off.

First up, sex has been fantastic. One of the perks of being married AND having stuck at home together. Lol. Forced to deal with our own shit with nowhere to run off to. This has been the longest the husband and I have been in one place together since we got married. So a fuck-ton of issues to deal with. Most of it has been dealt with, and is being dealt with so, at least it’s being handled. Throughout, sex has been good. I’m a little ashamed to admit that THAT, is a surprise. From angry, slapping, hair pulling sex (which I find to be really the most tiring....right?) to dirty, name calling, different kind of slapping and hair pulling, to porn inspired horny sex, to...dress up and all that. Dick on tap has never been this fun.

Which made me wonder, when did we go from secretive office fling, dirty, cheating sex (which literally was how we started) to (I hate to admit it) monotonous sex since we got married? It’s not like we haven’t tried. We’ve been using toys and dress ups, to public sex, even swinging. It always almost felt.....monotonous and....obligated. If it’s one thing I can be thankful for in the lockdown, it’s us figuring out that it had become that way, and moving forward to fixing it. I guess the difference is the emotions attached to the physical experience...? Pls chip in if you guys have your own theories. Always fun to discuss 😋

Speaking of which, I’ve also been coming clean to the husband on missing the boyfriend (which he’s aware of. We’ve been staying in contact ever since the start. We even had a few watch each other cum calls together. Which is surprising in itself, considering how insanely private the husband and I are). I also told him(husband) that I e been chatting up the fwb of late. We’ve been trying to arrange something but clearly, circumstance have prevented that.

So a few days ago I mentioned the Feb to the husband again and without hesitation, the husband suggested asking him over. That came as a bit of a surprise to me. Maybe it’s all the....porn we’ve been watching. Lol. So now I might just do that. I DO so miss standing sex with a bigger partner. 😉

So yeah, a few things going on. We’re also exploring heading back to Bali but we dont have anything concrete yet. We’ll see. Aaaaanyway. Will try to update more now that lockdown is somewhat lifted slightly. Strange how I have more time when I’m required to leave the apartment 😑.

Anyways. Gotta run. Thanks for reading (if you read through). Stay safe y’all!

partygald 41F
1963 posts
6/27/2020 2:30 am

 It could have gone either way too, I should add. For awhile I actually thought it would have gone soo far south wed end up as another statistic. It seems.....okaaaaay for now. But my pessimistic ass won’t allow me to enjoy it fully though 🤣. Dammit. Issues. Lol


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
6/27/2020 3:35 am

 Welcome back to blogging! Happy news that the spouse sex has been good, and that you're working out other stuff.

I thought Singapore had done everything so well with the pandemic that things were practically back to normal, other than quarantines on people crossing the border. Not quite there yet?

It's certainly a disaster here in the US. Not so bad here in the Seattle area, but much of the country is a disaster. (Also, if you've seen crazy news about the protests in Seattle it's probably nonsense, because local news outlets sensationalize stuff, and then national news exaggerates that.)


Fastnharderxxx 40M

6/27/2020 4:20 am

 Brighter is better


Wok2016 42M  
599 posts
6/27/2020 4:31 am

 Nothing like been confined in a space to confront the issues that are lingering on the periphery. I'm in a quasi-similar situation, but I think mine is going to other direction. Better to know one way or the other and move on, either way!


LocalPlayFriend 22M
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6/27/2020 4:54 am

 The events of the past few months have forced us all to take a long rest to look at where we are, where we have been, where we want to go, a time for re-evaluation of our lives and time to think about how we move forward, a new appreciation for living, good luck to all.


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
6/27/2020 5:11 am

 Good to see you again. Glad y'all seem to be working things out. Enjoy yourself.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
6/27/2020 5:55 am

 I guess you could look on the covid stuff as a "bonus" if it has helped you sort things out you either wouldn't have realised needing sorting, or has given you the time to get things sorted?

Promising signs here at last that we might be on top of things, although some people are being irresponsible or selfish and putting themselves and others in danger with gatherings and not observing distancing.

Just been reading about a Scotsman in Vietnam who had been on a ventilator for weeks before finally recovering well enough to be discharged. They've had zero deaths from covid there - that's much to be admired. Similarly with New Zealand - Jacinda Ardern has been highly praised for her actions in keeping the number of deaths to just 22.

And here we are in the "civilised" world with over 45,000.

Hopefully we're all back to normal soon.
Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
6/28/2020 2:27 am

 Welcome back Heidi, I did wonder if you were still in SG or had already hunkered down back in Bali.

Yeah, Lock-down and now travel ban in Western Australia have meant that whilst i'm feeling grateful for being in a location with Zero active Covid cases, whilst the rest of the world copes with horrendous infection and death rates, it's been a bit of a sexual desert, apart from porn masturbation (mostly old POV clips).

I can't wait to get back to Bali, Jkarta or anywhere in Asia to meet up with old friends


partygald 41F
1963 posts
6/28/2020 11:58 pm
    Quoting discreteSteve62:
    Welcome back to blogging! Happy news that the spouse sex has been good, and that you're working out other stuff.

    I thought Singapore had done everything so well with the pandemic that things were practically back to normal, other than quarantines on people crossing the border. Not quite there yet?

    It's certainly a disaster here in the US. Not so bad here in the Seattle area, but much of the country is a disaster. (Also, if you've seen crazy news about the protests in Seattle it's probably nonsense, because local news outlets sensationalize stuff, and then national news exaggerates that.)
Heya! Well....they (the govt here) have done a lot of things right, but there's more than a few cases of inconsistent practices that I've seen. Plus, you know how...dodgy the news reporting here can be. "cough" propaganda "cough"
But it is what it is - there are many places that are worse off. Glad to hear you're ok there. Thanks for stopping by


partygald 41F
1963 posts
6/28/2020 11:59 pm
    Quoting Wok2016:
    Nothing like been confined in a space to confront the issues that are lingering on the periphery. I'm in a quasi-similar situation, but I think mine is going to other direction. Better to know one way or the other and move on, either way!
Argh damn. So sorry to hear. But yeah, I agree, better to know and find out sooner than later. Good luck!


partygald 41F
1963 posts
6/29/2020 12:01 am
    Quoting LocalPlayFriend:
    The events of the past few months have forced us all to take a long rest to look at where we are, where we have been, where we want to go, a time for re-evaluation of our lives and time to think about how we move forward, a new appreciation for living, good luck to all.
So true. But one can only hope. I certainly hope people develop a new sense of appreciation, but like always, there're so many that don't. -_-
Still behaving like idiots. Anyway. Can't let these fuckers spoil it for everyone else. Thanks for stopping by


partygald 41F
1963 posts
6/29/2020 12:02 am
    Quoting Looknfind18:
    Good to see you again. Glad y'all seem to be working things out. Enjoy yourself.
Thank you!


partygald 41F
1963 posts
6/29/2020 12:04 am
    Quoting MyBaffies:
    I guess you could look on the covid stuff as a "bonus" if it has helped you sort things out you either wouldn't have realised needing sorting, or has given you the time to get things sorted?

    Promising signs here at last that we might be on top of things, although some people are being irresponsible or selfish and putting themselves and others in danger with gatherings and not observing distancing.

    Just been reading about a Scotsman in Vietnam who had been on a ventilator for weeks before finally recovering well enough to be discharged. They've had zero deaths from covid there - that's much to be admired. Similarly with New Zealand - Jacinda Ardern has been highly praised for her actions in keeping the number of deaths to just 22.

    And here we are in the "civilised" world with over 45,000.

    Hopefully we're all back to normal soon.
Yeah. Some fuckers just don't learn. But what do we do, right?
Thanks for stopping by.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
6/29/2020 12:06 am
    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    Welcome back Heidi, I did wonder if you were still in SG or had already hunkered down back in Bali.

    Yeah, Lock-down and now travel ban in Western Australia have meant that whilst i'm feeling grateful for being in a location with Zero active Covid cases, whilst the rest of the world copes with horrendous infection and death rates, it's been a bit of a sexual desert, apart from porn masturbation (mostly old POV clips).

    I can't wait to get back to Bali, Jkarta or anywhere in Asia to meet up with old friends
Thank you. Good to hear you're doing ok too. And yeah, plenty to be grateful for. And go easy on the porn, eh? You don't need another bush fire from the friction you're creating
Seriously though, take care, and thanks for stopping by


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