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Work, fetishes and sticky handshake. What was my point again?  

partygald 41F
3082 posts
3/26/2018 4:17 am

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3/27/2018 9:33 pm

Work, fetishes and sticky handshake. What was my point again?


It’s four days before I fly back and exactly a week before I start work again. Fuck. 😝. I’m not complaining (actually, I am aren’t I...) but it’s just all happening a little to quickly for my liking. At least I got my accommodation sorted, I’m gonna be staying with a Friend these two weeks.

I went looking for clothes earlier, it was kind of a spur of the moment thing. I actually had a 3-hour call this morning with my employers, talking about, well, work. 😳. Imagine that. So I kinda used that as an excuse to go on a little spree, to try not to let the impending workload overwhelm me. The excuse was, to get clothes for work. But seriously, who was I kidding? Here? 😝. I ended up with a white one piece swimsuit and an almost sheer, beige onesie. 🙄

So....not exactly uh....useful for work. Even the swimsuit is giving me second thoughts. I like that it’s cut quite high at the bottom, but I’m not too pleased with the chest pads. Maybe I’ll bring it to a seamstress and get them removed. Clearly, they’re not meant for Swimming. The bf has a liking for one piece swimsuits, and his constant asking has kinda spurned me into liking them. Of late, at least.

And it’s really quite weird when you find out what people’s fetishes are, when you actually find out. Cos it takes awhile to really get it out, so to speak. Aside from one-poece swimsuits, the bf also likes schoolgirl outfits and women taking charge (no issues there 😋), which is a really weird combo, if you ask me. The Husband, on the other hand, isn’t big on dress up...well, except maybe short skirts cos he likes upskirts and bouncing tits, amongst other things. I suppose in the grand scheme of fetishes one can find on the interwebs, those are generally common. Let’s not get into what I like, I doubt we have time for that 😝

Also, yesterday I sent the Husband to the airport, which is quite rare coz I usually don’t. But seeing how I woke him up at 4am only to get him hard enough for me to ride him, I figure that was the least I could do. You know how it is, at times when you just need to ride a dick, you need to ride a dick. And damn I rode hard yesterday. 😉. So on the way to the airport, one of the things we were talking in the cab was how it was normal to be in shorts that cover only half your ass here but not in most other places. Granted, we are pretty close to the beach. Also, yesterday was my last nude yoga class for awhile. When I get back here, she (the instructor) will be away for awhile too, so there’s that.

Amidst the dread (I think it’s more nerves, really) of going back to work, I am pretty excited too. I know I know....how fucking fickle minded 🤣. I’m actually dreading having to go pick up my work clothes from storage. Lol.

Oh! I was hanging out with some friends from the gym and one of them introduced his Friend to me, and damn did he have a sticky handshake. Eeeeewww. It. Was. Nasty. I really don’t want to know what he was doing before (blech) but for fucks sake, why would you shake someone’s hand when yours is dirty?!? Urgh. One of the worst things that can happen. What a waste coz he was quite cute too. But daaaamn....sticky handshake killed it!

Wait, there a point to this post....ah heck. I forgot😐

partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/26/2018 4:18 am

Will post again when I remember. Uh....IF I remember 🙃


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
3/26/2018 4:54 am

The best you could hope for is that he had just finished scoffing a sugar covered doughnut or other pastry........

Or maybe his fetish is offering is Cum-Soaked Hand in greeting

Good luck with your return to the workforce. I'm sure there are going to be a few stories to tell


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/26/2018 5:40 am

    Quoting  :

LOL
That was funny 😋 Thanks for stopping by


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/26/2018 5:41 am

    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    The best you could hope for is that he had just finished scoffing a sugar covered doughnut or other pastry........

    Or maybe his fetish is offering is Cum-Soaked Hand in greeting

    Good luck with your return to the workforce. I'm sure there are going to be a few stories to tell
Argh! I refuse that as a possibility 😝
And thanks again. I’ll try to keep posting 👍


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
3/26/2018 6:52 am

Onesies were a "fashion" item here a few years ago, but they were intended more as leisure or sleepwear. And for keeping one warm.

Not sure a semi-sheer onesie would do that in this climate!

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


jaxsingle73 50M

3/26/2018 7:11 am

I find one pieces very sexy!


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/26/2018 2:04 pm

I mostly think of sexy in the woman, rather than in the clothes. But there are some things I like if I find the woman attractive in general. I like a good rear view when a woman bends over. I like to see the outline of girl parts through clothing (though if I find the woman unattractive that's an additional negative). I like cleavage, sometimes even better than bare breasts, though that depends on the breasts and my mood. Long or medium hair swinging side to side is often sexy. A woman's butt and legs while she's bicycling or walking uphill are sexy. Lots of exercise and yoga poses are sexy.

I suppose my main (slightly) unusual turn-on is being seen naked by a woman (or people including women) who likes what she (or they) see, or better yet, being seen having sex by same. That's a bit similar to your fondness for public sex and nudity, except that I don't get a thrill from being seen by someone who doesn't want to look. The turn-on for me is the thought that the woman or people seeing me are also getting turned on by the sight, and that doesn't necessarily apply to random people out in the wild. And a shriek of someone who is shocked or offended by public nudity or sex is a buzz-kill.

Also, on an intellectual ethical level, stumbling across the sight of nudity or people having sex is a violation of consent over what they want to see. (The same would apply to other things people generally don't encounter by chance, such as gory sights, foul smells, etc.) Of course it's possible for things that are intellectually or ethically inappropriate might also be a turn-on, but in this case my turn-on matches my ethical position.

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Finally, on the matter of the sticky handshake, my hope is that it was just from sticky food, because other reasons a handshake might be sticky are even worse.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/27/2018 8:06 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Onesies were a "fashion" item here a few years ago, but they were intended more as leisure or sleepwear. And for keeping one warm.

    Not sure a semi-sheer onesie would do that in this climate!
I’m pretty sure this one I bought isn’t meant to keep me warm😬. Maybe the exact opposite? Not even sure when or where I’m gonna wear it. Definitely one of those impulse buys.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/27/2018 8:08 am

    Quoting discreteSteve62:
    I mostly think of sexy in the woman, rather than in the clothes. But there are some things I like if I find the woman attractive in general. I like a good rear view when a woman bends over. I like to see the outline of girl parts through clothing (though if I find the woman unattractive that's an additional negative). I like cleavage, sometimes even better than bare breasts, though that depends on the breasts and my mood. Long or medium hair swinging side to side is often sexy. A woman's butt and legs while she's bicycling or walking uphill are sexy. Lots of exercise and yoga poses are sexy.

    I suppose my main (slightly) unusual turn-on is being seen naked by a woman (or people including women) who likes what she (or they) see, or better yet, being seen having sex by same. That's a bit similar to your fondness for public sex and nudity, except that I don't get a thrill from being seen by someone who doesn't want to look. The turn-on for me is the thought that the woman or people seeing me are also getting turned on by the sight, and that doesn't necessarily apply to random people out in the wild. And a shriek of someone who is shocked or offended by public nudity or sex is a buzz-kill.

    Also, on an intellectual ethical level, stumbling across the sight of nudity or people having sex is a violation of consent over what they want to see. (The same would apply to other things people generally don't encounter by chance, such as gory sights, foul smells, etc.) Of course it's possible for things that are intellectually or ethically inappropriate might also be a turn-on, but in this case my turn-on matches my ethical position.

    - - -

    Finally, on the matter of the sticky handshake, my hope is that it was just from sticky food, because other reasons a handshake might be sticky are even worse.
I’m trying not to think too much into that handshake😳
Also, they say the clothes play a part but definitely the person has to take precedence. Everything else flows from there...


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