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Is there ever a good time?  

partygald 41F
3081 posts
7/15/2014 10:37 am

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7/15/2014 9:43 pm

Is there ever a good time?


Hola blogland. I'm stuck waiting for my laundry to be done so why not blog Talk about awful timing eh? Who does their laundry at midnight? Heh...I was at the gym and I had sweaty clothes and...ah well, let's not bore you with my reasoning.

Soo...I am officially attached. Um..well, again. This guy that I've been dating for awhile, we talked it through and I swear, it still feels like friggin high school, but yea. It's official...? We've been dating for a few months now and we haven't had sex yet. This is somewhat new territory for me. LOL But the wait has kinda made the anticipation...quite enjoyable. Anyways, there IS a<b> sexual tension </font></b>and for once (ok, maybe not once..) I haven't given in to my urges and ripped his clothes off. Yet. But yea, haven't done it. He came to pick me up on Friday night when I had to work late and, well, I was thinking about it, but then we got all serious and one thing led to another and it didn't happen.

I think he must have sensed it too cos he called me and said he was in the area and offered to come over. It was impromptu on his part cos we didn't plan to meet on Saturday at all. But he called and said he was in the area, which, given the circumstances, was fantastic. Except, I had Mr Married over at the time and I was supposed to see him off to the airport for his trip. So no, he couldn't come over then. I made up some excuse and told him we couldn't meet, and I'd meet him on Sunday, which I did. But before we get to that. Odd timing, you say? Well, at one point when I was telling Mr Married about my new guy, I was actually on top, riding him. Now, we've had this relationship between us for a long time now and it really didn't seem like such an odd thing. Talking while we fuck.

It's not like we do it ALL the time, like a running commentary. But we talk while fucking. A few friends of mine that I've told have mentioned to me it's weird but...heh. I guess it is Of course sometimes it CAN get a bit hard to concentrate on what the fuck he's saying when it gets intense..but..you know.

SO yea, timing.

There were a lotta things I had in mind to post about. Like it's been over 7 years since Mr Married and I hooked up. By far, this is the longest relationship I've had. It didn't start off being what it is now. I didn't know he was married to begin with. We DID try to end it. Several times. Ah well, a long story if I get into it and one for another time

Also, timing. Like I've told all the people I get into relationships with about Mr Married and a few other that I get together with from time to time. It's one of the main issues those relationships don't last. Well, ONE of the many issues. But let's not psychoanalyze me. Not for today

So yea, timing.
When do I have this chat with him? Heh...let's keep that for later too eh? First things first

Oh, on the lighter side of oddly timed news. An old friend of mine offered me a 3-day job to play dress up. LOL
According to him, it's either a Cosplay event, or for Halloween, depending on which he needs me for. Knowing him, and the kind of...events he throws, it probably involves some form of raunchy costume. I used to do it for him a long, loooong time ago. Pays pretty well for 3 days of work. But its soo weird. Like really? Heh..after all these years

Uh...oh, washing's done. Gotta go. Til next time...thanks for reading.

FlickSg 51M
182 posts
7/15/2014 4:20 pm

Congratulations! ... i suppose...haha.
Has Mr. Official kissed you? Just wondering if you may run the risk of investing all the emotions and finding out eventually you don't like the way he kisses ... and other stuff.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/15/2014 9:43 pm

    Quoting FlickSg:
    Congratulations! ... i suppose...haha.
    Has Mr. Official kissed you? Just wondering if you may run the risk of investing all the emotions and finding out eventually you don't like the way he kisses ... and other stuff.
Hahahaa! Thanks. And yes, we've gone through the light stuff. Just not the clothes off, hot, sweaty...well.


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