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Blogs > partygald > this way to heidi

Should I say something?  

partygald 41F
3082 posts
5/26/2013 9:59 pm

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6/1/2013 3:45 am
Should I say something?

Wow..I'm posting 2 days in a row?!? Been a looong time since I done that but I guess I got more time these days..or for the next day or two

Anyways, rock and hard place moment. I attended a party last night, it was organized by an old friend of mine and he had gathered a few of his friends and against my better judgement, I went. It has been a good few years since I attended a swinger party/gathering/get together so I was plenty apprehensive. I wasn't planning to get with anyone so I brought the bf and the ex along (wasn't planning to get with anyone else doesn't mean I wasn't gonna get any.. )

I usually decline his invites but I've been really horny the last week or so...so I guess that's why I went. Anyhow, got there in the evening and didn't really mingle much. Spoke to one or two people that I kinda knew and since I was with 2 of my boys, it was pretty clear we weren't looking so almost everyone left us alone. It was more weird/awkward for me rather than hot cos it HAS been soo long since I've been to one of these but we found a nice corner where we got going, aaand we really got going. Wait..there was a point to this...ah yes.

Before the bf, ex bf and I found our spot and really got down to it, we passed one of the rooms and I kinda saw one of my friend's wife getting it on with a few others. I kinda knew one of the guys she was with, and he was also friends with her husband. The thing is, her husband wasn't there. It kinda took me by surprise cos I never knew they were into this, as far as I know. Second thing is, I'm actually friends with her husband and know her later when they dated, and now as his wife. I'm not sure if she saw me and it wasn't exactly the right moment to go and say hi

I got caught up with my own...activities shortly after (gimme a break...I was horny and mildly tipsy so I guess that got the better of me ) and didn't give it much thought. There was another couple with us in the room I was in but in hindsight, I didn't see her or that other guy the whole night. Given, by the time we left it was waaay dark and the lights were dimmed so..I just threw my clothes on and left.

I can't help thinking now if I should say something to my friend. But how? Its not exactly my business...well, it's literally not my business but...I'm wondering if he knows..? And if I even insinuate that he didn't...would that be rude of me? Oh no...so should I say something? The bf thinks I should keep quiet about it. Hmmm.....

joyridee 50M
21 posts
5/27/2013 1:31 am

 well thats the game your friend's wants to play then she play by her own rules... let her be, she's not doing any harm to you. Discreed is still the name of the game rite? Glad u yourself had fun. But let her have her's


OtherAltAct1 44F
13 posts
5/27/2013 1:37 am

 See no evil.Hear no evil.Speak no evil.

You wouldn't know if there's an agreement between your friend and his wife,that all is well.

Only what you see and feel obliged to inform your friend.

Don't.
Not your place to do so.
Life is full of Fun & Games


JustHere2Cam 56M
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5/27/2013 5:44 am

 Her husband might know that she's there, maybe not. Generally, you aren't supposed to "out" people who attend swinger or kink parties. We have some people at our kink parties who are married but attend solo to play with specific partners.

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OtherAltAct1 44F
13 posts
5/27/2013 6:23 pm
    Quoting OtherAltAct1:
    See no evil.Hear no evil.Speak no evil.

    You wouldn't know if there's an agreement between your friend and his wife,that all is well.

    Only what you see and feel obliged to inform your friend.

    Don't.
    Not your place to do so.
"Only what you see and feel obliged to inform your friend."

Sorry.Correction.

Only what you SAW and feel obligated to inform your friend.
Life is full of Fun & Games


partygald 41F
1963 posts
5/28/2013 1:40 am

 Yea, given the fact that it's almost impossible to not bump into someone you don't want to here in whatever you do. After thinking about it, I guess you guys are right. Not my business. It's just a little weird when I bump into them next. Best case, maybe I let her know I saw her. Maybe. We'll see.
Thanks for the input


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