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Blogs > partygald > this way to heidi

This is quite random..  

partygald 41F
3082 posts
2/14/2011 4:13 am

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2/24/2011 8:02 am
This is quite random..

I actually have a few thing in mind that I've been wanting to blog about but as things go, haven't been able to and am now undecided what to post first....

Anyways, I'm remembering last year's Valentine's day when I took a trip with this guy I was with at the time. We had booked a villa in Bali and the plan was to share the place with another couple, who were mutual friends. There's a pretty long back story leading to this but I'll leave that out. So a day before we left, he told me that one of his best friend who he's known since they were like 10 or something was visiting and he'd asked him to join us on this trip. His friend had already made plans and changed his flight and would be meeting us in Bali like a day late.

At that time, the only thing I thought of was that his friend would be a lil awkward considering he was going to be joining two couples on holiday but considering how everything was left to the last minute, I didn't put too much thought into it. So we went, and we spent 6 days there. On the second night, his friend got there and decided he slept on the couch. Considering this was a quieter part of Bali, we ended every night with a party of our own. Third night we had a few drinks and the other couple left to go back to their room to continue their party. I felt kinda bad cos I didn't want to leave his friend out alone so we continued on and as these things turn out, one thing led to another and my ex and I started first on the couch. His friend was watching for a bit then asked if he could join, which he did eventually.

So for the remaining days and nights, he basically moved in with us into our room, which was fine by me cos, it's not everyday that I'd get to enjoy two younger black guys This went pretty well until like a day after we got back that I found out that my ex had baan planning this all along. Of course it was planned right? I mean, in hindsight, everything was too coincidental. Anyways, we argued and I actually told him that IF he were just to bring it up and asked, I would've been fine with it. So sparing the gory details of how one arguement lead to another, that relationship ended shortly after.

We're still friends, and we're still sexually active...but it's a different kind of relationship now. Guess the only reason I'm remembering this again is cos he's getting posted to Sydney to work and I just met him over the weekend after not being able to meet up for quite a long time, with both our schedules and all. Anyhoo..this is another random piece of info..

SimplyBeHappy 48M
378 posts
2/14/2011 6:24 pm

 hmm. i need my wife to be planning such incidental bangbangs for me too. LOL!


kinkoholic 47M
17 posts
2/17/2011 7:03 am

 i am sure your wife will plan such incidental bangbangs if you first and foremost arrange one for her. give without expecting and you may just be surprised


partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/17/2011 7:03 pm
    Quoting kinkoholic:
    i am sure your wife will plan such incidental bangbangs if you first and foremost arrange one for her. give without expecting and you may just be surprised
Ha...damn right! Yes! Agreed!


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