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If you wanna make the world a better place take a look at yourself and then make a change
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If you wanna make the world a better place take a look at yourself and then make a change Beautiful words from an dreadful person . I follow one of my former co-workers on Twitter because she’s a super-ultra-mega liberal (with a foreign twist) and her occasional radical stances amuse me . She got married recently and she was bragging that on her wedding day she got hammered at the reception , as is tradition , and that night in the honeymoon sweet she wanted to have sex but her husband refused because he said that she was in no condition to be able to consent . Now , my initial reaction to this is that this is one of her crazy stances that’s going too far . If we’re being honest I think it’s fine to have sex with your drunk wife who’s initiating sex . Does that make me a horrible person ? Is this the problem ? That I , and people like me , think that’s fine ? I hate to say “where’s the line” because it seems like guys who ask that are asking because they want to know how shiftily they can behave before the sheriff comes to arrest them , but where’s the line ? On two occasions my first Senior Sizzle friend went out drinking with her pals , and booty called me when she got home and I obliged said call . Does that mean I’m a (BANNED TOPIC) ? I mean obviously if a dude finds a woman passed out drunk and has sex with her that’s just flat out (BANNED TOPIC) but that’s not the conversation we’re trying to have right ? That dude is just a criminal , the end . What the current conversation is about (I think) is when things aren’t so cut and dry . What if both people are drunk ? What does that mean ? They’re both guilty ? If you’re over the legal limit what does that mean ? If you get drunk and rob a Long John Silvers you can’t go “not my fault , I was too drunk to know what I was doing” no matter what your blood alcohol is right ? But if you’re over the limit does that mean you can’t consent legally ? I don’t think so but I don’t know . If you get drunk and sign a contract with someone can you get out of it by saying you were impaired ? I guess the basic question is does being intoxicated legally mean the same thing as being mentally incompetent ? It can’t mean that though because you can say you’re not fit to stand trial for a crime based on mental competency but you can’t for being shit-faced . Keep in mind of course that this all comes from the perspective of a non-drinker so I don’t even really know what I’m talking about . So imagine that tomorrow I decided I’m done with not drinking and I buy myself two jugs of Woodchuck Hard Cider and I go to town . And in my drunken state I pop off a tweet to WNBA all-star Maya Moore saying I want to bang and she happens to be in town and comes over and we have sex . The next day if I say “She (BANNED TOPIC) me” on account of I was too drunk to know what I was doing there is no chance of anything happening other than my name becoming a brief late-night punchline . So does that make it okay or is that just a whole different problem ? I feel like whenever people talk about this they say something like “you KNOW when someone is too drunk” which seems like a bullshit cop-out to me . Is the answer that you just shouldn’t have sex with anyone who’s been drinking at all ? I’d be fine with that but clearly the US as a society LOVES the booze so I doubt that’s going to get far at all . So is the solution that you need to make sure you’re AS drunk as the person you’re about to have sex with ? Because that seems to make sense “logically” but it’s clearly insane . If a dude said “She was pretty tipsy so I chugged a 40 real quick to make sure it was kosher” you’d say something like “get away from me (BANNED TOPIC)” . I mean obviously the real salutation is to bring back prohibition but there’s no way that’s going to fly . The other day someone said that other countries don’t have the alcohol problems that the US does , not taking about this specifically , and I don’t know if that’s true or not . But if it is true it can’t be just because of the age limit can it ? It seems far too easy that all these problems with alcohol would be solved if in America started having a glass of wine with dinner . If there is a difference it has to be cultural right ? Because whatever you may or may not think about America is certainly seems to be WAY different than anywhere else . I’m kind of talking in circles about nothing here really but there is one thing I want to bring up . It’s been trendy now for a while to circulate memes about consent being “sexy” . Am I wrong or is that an insane thing also ? Think about it if a dude said “consent really turns me on !” wouldn’t you run screaming away from that weirdo ? Doesn’t saying that consent is sexy equate it to a push-up bra or something ? Am I off base here ? Am I horribly missing the point ? I’m not sure what the point of this post is but it was on my mind . Putting first by putting employees first, immediately after prioritizing fiscal responsibilities and leveraging profitability towards exceeding by empowering our employees to put (and themselves) first, in a diverse and respectful environment of only those that come first, first. |
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10/1/2018 5:34 pm |
Umm..meanng how drunk was the perpetratorm that's a bunch of things to consider all right ..But to start with maybe the husband wasn't joking when he said she wasn't in any condition to consent. Maybe too he knew what she was like when she is drunk maybe shes a nasty drunk or passes out before the act happens ..I mean what man would actually want to have sex with a drunk woman anyway ? I am sure if you spoke to any law enforcement official off the record they could say it so youd get the gist of maybe why .I know the evidence of being under the influence of alcohol if you cruelize an animal its inadmissible in court they can be charged but in doing so they can also fight it and win...not fair ? fucking bet its not..but its a grey area ..because the perp can say he was too drunk...even tho he wasn't ..
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Haha at your added comment. I suppose the definition of "too drunk" would be whether you're sorry about what happened the next day. I've had plenty of drunken sex but can only remember maybe a couple times where I thought "whoa, why'd I do that" the next day. I would be a bit sorry if all of this discussion about drinking and sex results in people not drinking at all if they want to have sex. As someone who's a little bit introverted and shy, around the two drink mark I become quite a bit more animated and fun to be around. At least I think so. Maybe the alcohol is making me fool myself.   
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Maybe they can make a breathalyzer that can be dispensed in bar bathrooms - like the condom machine. "Consentalyzer" Invent that please. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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