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From the moment I first saw you I knew I wanted to have sex with you a few times and then ghost you  

40Deuce 46M
4633 posts
6/11/2018 4:59 pm

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6/12/2018 6:48 pm

From the moment I first saw you I knew I wanted to have sex with you a few times and then ghost you


There's lady on here with the username of Polyester . Do you think her name is Ester and she's polyamorous ? Or does she just love synthetic resin ?

Is there anything sadder then when you think to yourself "maybe my phone/network connection/mailbox/whatever isn't working" because you've received no texts or e-mails or messages or tweets or letters or whatever ? Yes .

I think an actual real live lady was just trying to flirt with me on IM , I ruined that in two sentences . I couldn't flirt my way out of a flirting factory with an electrified flirting machine on the flirtingest day of he year . Sometimes I wonder how I've ever gotten laid at all . Then I remember .

I say "bummed" or "bummer" more than most people in regards to being in low spirits . The dumb Australian guy I work with claims that in England and countries like that were bum is used to mean ass saying that you're bummed means you got fucked in the ass . I don't believe him . But it could be true .

As you all know I am an unfeeling monster with a heart that's three sizes too small (which is a serious medical issue) but even I am astounded at the regularity which people approach their romantical life completely practically and dispassionately .

Maybe I've seen too many romantic comedies (two) but I feel like if you really feel something for someone you wouldn't be so cavalier about it . Such as I was talking to an old workmate of mine about how he's feeling like his life is empty and meaningless (which must be true if he's turning to ME for advice) because all he does is drink and chase women and I asked what the deal was because a few months ago he was buying a house with his GF and looking for engagement rings .

What happened was she came to him and said they had to move in together or break up . And he didn't want to move in with her but he also didn't want to break up so they bought a house together . Spoiler alert it didn't work out . That seems crazy to me on both sides . Does coercing your partner ever go well in the long run ? I think the same thing about people who are always checking up on their partner - because if you don't trust them it doesn't really matter if they're cheating on you or not right ? If you think they're capable of that it's not working out is it ?

I don't know if I believe in love but if it does exist it seems like it should be something that you care about enough to make things work . But maybe it only seems like that because I've never been in love , maybe it's no big deal . Maybe other people fall in love dozens of times and it's not something to get all worked up about .

I guess what I'm saying is hang on loosely but don't let go

I watched part of Stripes yesterday because that movie is great , and I wondered , is there a comedy made between 1979 and 1983 that does not have a scene where someone is peeping in a women's shower ?

Speaking of movies Sicario is a great movie to me and I was reverse bummed about there being a sequel but it sequels looks awful .

Sicario seemed like a unique movie to me from a lot of angles - it had a strong veneer of realism , it called into question the US's responsibility for drug violence in Mexico , it had a female lead realistically portrayed in a rough and tumble world of violence , it had a good message about the militarization of the war on drugs , there was a lot of good stuff there .

But the sequel appears to be a straight up clichéd "killer protects little girl" action flick . Boo . Bummer .

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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
6/11/2018 5:00 pm

Your baby needs someone to believe in
And a whole lot of space to breathe in

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superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
6/11/2018 6:17 pm

Love - the blessing and curse of humankind. I have experienced both.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


40Deuce replies on 6/12/2018 3:03 pm:
I thought our curse was greed , but I suppose that's love of money so agreed

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
6/12/2018 8:18 am

"Marry me or we're breaking up" - I have never dared to use that ultimatum, which I guess is why I've never been married.

As for love, I'm sure that you have (and do) care about people, it's just when you try to up it to "in love" - that swoony romantic feeling - where the sticking point happens.


40Deuce replies on 6/12/2018 3:03 pm:
Have you ever wanted to ?

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
6/12/2018 5:41 pm

Have I ever wanted to get married? Yes, i did bring it up early on with the guy who i lived with for 13 years. His response was "it's just a piece of paper". He was fresh out of a somewhat ugly (and finance-wrecking) divorce so that perspective made sense on his part.

Of course, when he decided to leave me and got zero equity out of the house that had been bought in my name, he possibly regretted not having that piece of paper. Mwahahaha.


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