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How to win at everything ever (if you're into that kind of thing)  

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2/16/2012 5:17 pm
How to win at everything ever (if you're into that kind of thing)

Willingness – the biggest reason we don’t succeed is because we get in our own way.

Reframe / Rethink – look at things from a different angle, focus on and be positive, know you are capable of handling more than you think, compare the truths and lies, choose to accept and ask for help.

Let go of the need to control – encourage and let other perform also, stay willing, ask for help, surrender, learn what needs to be “perfect” , and what doesn’t have to be “perfect”.

Engage – look for trends, look back and review, listen, learn from others, LAUGH OFTEN – know that “things will happen”. Also engage others to change by: letting them know why now, establish a clear vision, get the right people, set boundaries, and make it fun.

Start – don’t do it all at once, do a little at a time and celebrate ALL attempts. Accept failure as a part of the process, but persevere – don’t give up. Remember if you have a plan you have a better chance of making it – learn from your mistakes and improve

Embrace Change – Remember change is messy, you don’t have to act right now – take a minute to review, ignore your inner critic, seek out other perspectives, be skeptical when needed, observe and think before you act. Be transparent – it is what it is.

Self Care – take care of yourself without additional medical or professional consultations, don’t stress yourself out. Take the time to sink into a new routine, rest and recharge, eat well, sleep & exercise, single task as much as possible, work your strengths daily, share your journey with others, don’t get stuck in whining – breathe and set time to unwind.
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