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This one for Bipolybabe.... Bad grammar = bad sex ?  

malewithbrains 50M
719 posts
3/25/2007 11:32 pm

Last Read:
7/31/2007 4:58 am

This one for Bipolybabe.... Bad grammar = bad sex ?

Bipolybabe has an interesting theory in her [post 775845]:

The correlation between good grammar/correct spelling and good sex from a female point of view.

In fact, I'd really like to know if bad grammar = bad sex.


So, what do you guys / gals think ?

Please leave a comment as to what you voted and why

P.S. This post has grown a lot by the contributions of bipolybabe, so please do take the time to read ALL of the comments as they are just as important as the post itself
Bad grammar / spelling= Bad sex
Bad grammar / spelling = Good sex
Grammar / spelling and sex isn't correlated at all


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
59F

3/26/2007 12:38 am

bad kissing = bad sex

TTFN


bipolybabe 62F

3/26/2007 1:10 pm

Yep.

BPB

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bipolybabe 62F

3/26/2007 1:11 pm

    Quoting  :

You got it, babe.

BPB

BPB

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bipolybabe 62F

3/26/2007 1:11 pm

    Quoting  :

Ungh.

BPB

BPB

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bipolybabe 62F

3/26/2007 1:15 pm

Actually, I'd be really curious to know if there are considerate lovers who are inattentive to spelling and grammar. I honestly don't know if there's any correlation between education and good sex.

The animalistic grunting to which wetntiny refers is fun as a change of pace from politically correct sex, but I imagine that people's idea of what makes great sex is sort of individual, don't you think?

My point was that it's hard to get a second look, much less get laid by me, if one's grammar and spelling are atrocious. And, frankly, I may be missing incredibly tender lovers because I'm a spelling snob.

BPB

Did I ever tell you I was the Sixth Grade State Spelling Champion?

BPB

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CB_2 58F

3/26/2007 2:51 pm

    Quoting bipolybabe:
    Actually, I'd be really curious to know if there are considerate lovers who are inattentive to spelling and grammar. I honestly don't know if there's any correlation between education and good sex.

    The animalistic grunting to which wetntiny refers is fun as a change of pace from politically correct sex, but I imagine that people's idea of what makes great sex is sort of individual, don't you think?

    My point was that it's hard to get a second look, much less get laid by me, if one's grammar and spelling are atrocious. And, frankly, I may be missing incredibly tender lovers because I'm a spelling snob.

    BPB

    Did I ever tell you I was the Sixth Grade State Spelling Champion?
BiPolyBabe is right - it's not so much the correlation between bad spelling/grammar and bad sex as the potential link between good spelling/grammar and good sex.

And, as pinkie says further up, it could be because the good e-mails come from guys with good attention to detail when they are trying to impress you - whether that is in e-mail form or in bed.

Just to confuse matters, I don't correlate "trying to impress you" necessarily with good sex. For me, the best sex happens with a sexually confident guy who is secure enough in his masculinity to give you a good time without trying to be a crowd pleaser. That's what I mean when I say I'm looking for a bad boy - not someone who will treat me rudely, but someone who is very very naughty, under a gentlemanly exterior.

Blogito ergo sum.


malewithbrains 50M
1895 posts
3/26/2007 2:55 pm

    Quoting bipolybabe:
    Actually, I'd be really curious to know if there are considerate lovers who are inattentive to spelling and grammar. I honestly don't know if there's any correlation between education and good sex.

    The animalistic grunting to which wetntiny refers is fun as a change of pace from politically correct sex, but I imagine that people's idea of what makes great sex is sort of individual, don't you think?

    My point was that it's hard to get a second look, much less get laid by me, if one's grammar and spelling are atrocious. And, frankly, I may be missing incredibly tender lovers because I'm a spelling snob.

    BPB

    Did I ever tell you I was the Sixth Grade State Spelling Champion?
OK NOW, you are hijacking my post

I don't know what it means from a woman's point of view... but 99% of my life I had been a geek, who preffered reading Molliere to pushing up 200 lbs. I guess if I had read Molliere and pushed up 200 lbs at the same time my chances would have doubled.

OK, so I got laid less than the guys who pushed 200 lbs, but I still would like to think the intensity, passion was better than a "don't give a damn = animalistic sex, grunting and spitting"

Some like gentle, tender kisses while some like a pounding on their pussy, I guess my customer base is the ones who like gentle, tender kisses

On the note of being a spelling snob have a line for you... "devil is hidden in the details " ...

ponder about that, and keep hijacking this post


purpletrashcan 58F
41653 posts
3/26/2007 10:21 pm

Yup....nothing worse than a bad kiss!

Pull My Fucking Hair!


BasilRatBone 76M

3/27/2007 12:09 am

I was just thinking of a song entitled "He's So Stupid" by an artist I can't recall. The songstress goes on and on about how she likes them big and dumb. So, I don't know about all the proper spelling and grammar (don't forget cheaters with spell and grammar checking} or bad diction. Seems I've lost more than a few girlfriends to big dumb suckers.


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
4/3/2007 12:58 am

Regional spelling bee champ and language snob reporting for duty, Sir.

I can't help it; it means a lot to me, and
hi bebe u wana fuk?
is a huge turnoff.

It's not only spelling, it's grammar, word choice, and attention to detail. Those are the things that tell me the most about a person, and I am adept at reading between the lines.

Would I fuck a guy with bad grammar? Probably, if I actually met him and he turned me on. (Note: I would have to meet him accidentally because this venue is clearly a language-based one and he has a distinct disadvantage there.)

Would I like it? Maybe, as long as he didn't open his yap.

p.s. I agree with BPB, "And, frankly, I may be missing incredibly tender lovers because I'm a spelling snob." Frankly, that's a chance I'm willing to take. There must be one educated, intensely creative, passionate, anti-vernacular talking man out there for me. Sigh.

Elevate me...


A55mobile 96F

4/12/2007 4:20 pm

heck I did not know I have to have a high IQ to be a super lover!

who cares about spelling as long as you know how to listen....then you know how to reach my heart and not only


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