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I feel so shallow  

demonicsexkitten 49F
5182 posts
5/18/2015 7:55 pm

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6/7/2015 11:27 pm

I feel so shallow


I've always prided myself on going for the mind and heart and soul. NOT the physical. Of course the physical matters a little bit but... not so much.

I recently had a guy send me a pic of himself - a hint of hairy chest, wearing glasses - and I was so filled with instant lust... it's almost insane.

NOT my normal reaction lol.

He happens to know I really like his mind, heart, and soul. But... dang. My reaction to his pic makes me feel a bit shallow.

easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
5/18/2015 8:03 pm

Well dsk... it's time for you to see or see again the movie 'Shallow Hal'... I thoroughly enjoyed it... with and without the shallowness...

and, who says you can't like a picture because it's a picture... why not?

now, if you are blind person, I apologize up front... and, it must be difficult for you to play your drums being blind... but, if you are not a blind person, then you should be happy using all of your senses to get what you want...

just sayin'...

why tie your arm behind your back...

go for it!!!

and, that's all I have to say about that...

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demonicsexkitten replies on 5/18/2015 8:06 pm:
Since I've never seen that movie... guess I'll add it to my summer list

I love pictures because it's a picture. Artistic, humorous, great looking, creative... beautiful. All sorts of reasons. But "instant lust" ... doesn't happen for pics or real men that often. Feelings of interest: sure. Not quite the same thing though.

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/54F

5/18/2015 8:04 pm

There is nothing wrong with being physically attracted to another person. It's not like you are lusting after him only for his physical appearance.

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demonicsexkitten replies on 5/18/2015 8:10 pm:
True, that

It's just an unusual occurrence for me. "Appreciation" yes. "Intense Lust" not so much.

easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
5/18/2015 8:26 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Well dsk... it's time for you to see or see again the movie 'Shallow Hal'... I thoroughly enjoyed it... with and without the shallowness...

    and, who says you can't like a picture because it's a picture... why not?

    now, if you are blind person, I apologize up front... and, it must be difficult for you to play your drums being blind... but, if you are not a blind person, then you should be happy using all of your senses to get what you want...

    just sayin'...

    why tie your arm behind your back...

    go for it!!!

    and, that's all I have to say about that...
r u kidding me???

when we were kids we couldn't wait for the monkywards (Montgomery wards) & the sears catalogs to get to the house... they were the closest thing to playboy we could get our hands out... and, oh those bras and panties... my mom used to get so mad at us, because we would mess those catalogs up...

now, that is lust... in a picture...

just sayin'...

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demonicsexkitten replies on 5/18/2015 8:40 pm:
LOL That's a great image of you as a kid

GentWithNiceAss 46M
2 posts
5/18/2015 8:28 pm

Demonsexkitten,
It's all in the genes -- you can't help it.
So don't feel "shallow" about your hard-wiring. Just accept it, appreciate the standards you've set for yourself, and with both in harmony.

b


demonicsexkitten replies on 5/18/2015 8:46 pm:
Nice pic

You're right... and I do appreciate the harmony. I'm just not used to having such a strong reaction.

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
5/18/2015 10:13 pm

Ooh, DSK,
That might mean something. Why don't you explore that?
Kk

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demonicsexkitten replies on 5/18/2015 10:45 pm:
Hmm... maybe

Keppel37 55M
3657 posts
5/20/2015 12:34 am

**ck it Ms.DSK.... Stop being uptight, enjoy the view and don't worry about how it made you react.... It is permitted to be attracted, though I think society would rather you ladies were angels (I hate that thought)

The immediate response should have been to ask for more pics

Mark xxx


demonicsexkitten replies on 5/20/2015 4:35 pm:
On the bright side: I have more pics I think he's not quite believing I like his pics as much as I claim. And my suspicion is he took the pic with glasses on purpose knowing my very positive reaction to earlier ones.

And I'm not being uptight so much as "Wow... I've never had a reaction that strong to a simple pic before".

kittyliquor519 59M
2730 posts
5/20/2015 8:51 pm

In no way do I find that shallow, it's natural to feel that way

You already know you like the inside so when you see the packaging and drool, it's a good thing

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


demonicsexkitten replies on 5/20/2015 10:22 pm:
Yep... way too much drooling. LOL.

VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
6/7/2015 9:11 am

well, now you have an idea of what some pictures do for me!


demonicsexkitten replies on 6/7/2015 11:29 pm:
Life might be more interesting that way

For me: it requires somebody I've mentally and emotionally bonded with and attracted to for that to happen.

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