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Blogs > demonicsexkitten > Life, or something like it

Anal Toy  

demonicsexkitten 49F
5181 posts
7/26/2014 8:42 am

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7/28/2014 4:39 pm
Anal Toy
Hopefully I didn't post this before. Though if I did it probably doesn't hurt to share again.

A couple lifetimes ago I had a lover who was totally into anal sex. He was a "butt guy" all the way. That's actually how we met, in a way.

His version: he saw an attractive woman with a GREAT ass, and he kept watching her, admiring from a distance. Then said woman walked up and handed him chocolate. He LOVED chocolate... so then really had to meet her, thus began following her around trying to get her to talk to him the rest of the night.

My version: It was a Valentine's Day event. I'd attempted to make enough candy bags to give to everybody I met throughout the day. Instead after 75 I ran out of time and candy, so I decided to only give it out to people I knew at the event. There was one guy I did not know standing in the midst of 20 people I DID know, so... I gave him one. Would be rude under the circumstances not to. Then... he proceeded to follow me around the rest of the night, trying to talk to me, to flirt with me, to get my number. I ignored and avoided him as politely as I possibly could.

What happened? While I was off doing something else my best friend said "Oh, sure, here's her number! Call her sometime". A few days later he did.

We started talking, became friends, and eventually lovers (a safe,<b> platonic </font></b>night of just cuddling smacked into the fact my hands wander in my sleep. And upon waking I decided I liked where they had wandered). Months later he introduced me to anal sex. When a guy (or anybody I guess) is totally into it and knows what he's doing... the sensations are so unique, and so addictive. It's not better than vaginal just... well, I think it's like comparing apples to oranges. Similar shape but not hardly the same thing at all.

Fast forward a bit: I chose to follow the religious direction my soul was pulling me towards. Anal sex is one of the "forbidden" things. I spent years getting used to the idea of never experiencing it again. Then earlier this year I had the joy of experiencing it again, and it was 100x more intense than ever. Sadly it was a one-time deal, He supposedly met and totally fell for somebody and ended our relationship. However he brought back cravings, and had told me how wonderful anal beads are so.... I went shopping.

The woman at the store, when I asked her opinion of toy x vs toy y, said no. No way, no how, even though she'd get in trouble if her manager heard her tell somebody to not buy something they wanted... go with toy A (along with why she prefers it to the others). I'm quite glad I listened. There were other toys that they demoed on the "All About Anal Sex" ladies night discussion that I'm curious about, but this is quite wonderful. (Turns out I'm one of very few women with a highly positive "anal first time" experience

Well... all that rambling, to get to the point: Here's the toy I purchased. I'm not sure yet if it's the toy itself or the particular lube she had me purchase ("stimulating and warming" with ginseng) but it's almost like a small electric current hitting me in waves.

Ripple-Anal Sex Toy by Tantus:


Note: 2 years later he still had the bag of candy. It meant that much to him, that a random woman he was attracted to, walked up and handed it to him out of the blue. He couldn't stand the thought of losing the momento. It's possible he still has it but it's been 12+ years so probably not.

Smokeblower 67M
610 posts
7/26/2014 8:49 am

 OOOH! I know that one! I had two friends who worked at Tantus for a few years. I even worked in their booth one year at the AVN show in Las Vegas, just for fun. We used to save all the butt plugs that didn't pass inspection and launch them with a giant sling shot at local Burning Man events.

So does the Ripple-Anal produce that same intensity you've felt with a knowledgable lover?


demonicsexkitten replies on 7/26/2014 9:05 am:
No... it's different yet again. I need to try it with a different kind of lube to see how much is lube vs toy.

Part of it's size... a man's cock is larger and uniform in size. With pulsing heat and veins etc. And the sliding in and out just adds dimensions, along with the human connection. The toy is still quite thrilling though, and eases the craving a bit.

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/27/2014 12:55 am

 Anal beads are brilliant, especially when pulled out very slowly!


demonicsexkitten replies on 7/27/2014 1:21 am:
Does it work that way for the woman too? It's men that keep telling me that lol

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/27/2014 1:49 am
    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    Anal beads are brilliant, especially when pulled out very slowly!
I don't see why it should work differently for women than men.
My ex-partner used to love anal beads - we both had the same feeling. Slow was so teasing and intense, but then we liked all the beads coming out quickly after being teased. There's always only so much teasing you can take!


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