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Purple Peach returns home!
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Purple Peach returns home! She’s BACKKK!!! It took almost 2 years but I’m finally wanting to get back in this writing saddle again. I can’t believe it’s been that long since I was here. Sexually, you guys haven’t missed much. I spent the majority of the last 2+years having zero sex drive or even worse avoiding any contact for fear of the painful sex that plagued me for years. The Nympho died some time in Italy after the last miscarriage. Sex had become a painful chore that I avoided at all costs. I finally got to a decent GYN late last year, who realized there was a problem. She ran some tests and found my uterus had collapsed on top of my bladder and vagina causing me lots of pain and discomfort. I had a transvaginal hysterectomy in March and am just now finally starting to feel like my libido is existent at all. An awful lot has gone on in that time but I’ll try to catch everyone up to speed. We did manage to get both the dogs and the parrot back to the US safely, even if it did take favors from a mob king in Italy..lmao…We really liked our first rental house here in NC but the landlord was a flake and never extended the fence as he promised. With us adopting a 2nd Great Dane we really needed a bigger yard. Plus we added 5 chickens. When the job told the Viking he’d have to retire here we found a smaller house with a huge yard and moved the same day I had my hysterectomy. Exactly 2 weeks later the Viking interviewed and took a job to retire out of hometown Ga. So the 2nd rental house here in NC has sat half unpacked since March. Now I’m repacking for the move to our forever home in Ga. Last July the Viking broke his leg at work and spent the year recovering his full strength to be able to change jobs to the one he’s in now. His sister and youngest niece were here at the time and it was not a nice few months. We lost a lot of friends. Our friends who were our main pet sitters in Italy moved here not long after we did and stayed with us while they looked for a house. That few days house hunting turned into a short term living situation that ended our friendship with us feeling badly used and taken advantage of. My best friend from Italy dumped me because of a FB post on immigration. No discussion other than she couldn’t have that in her life and I never heard from her again. My 3rd massage therapist in Italy and the friend I tried reopening our marriage with in Italy was murdered by her live in BF when he shot himself in the head. She was finally getting all her dreams, not even 30 and gone. That one hit both the Viking and myself hard. I gave up my beloved Z3 last December for a more Great Dane friendly Mazda CX9 but Maz is no substitute for Beemo. I miss that car but it just wasn't the same driving it here as it was in Italy on the Autostrada and Autobahn. The Viking and I have mostly been amicable roommates since we moved back to the states. He steadfastly refused to show any signs of wanting to repair us until I stopped any pretense of trying to repair our sex life post op. Well, to be fair, he did all kinds of things that he thought should show me that he was sorry and trying to make amends but none of those things were what I asked or wanted of him. Those things have still not been done other than seeing a therapist a few times. We will see if we continue to make progress forward or if the move stalls everything again. My refusal to have sex got us into a marriage therapist faster than flies on shit. We had a few sessions that were very helpful and insightful for him but not much time before he left for the new job in Ga. Hopefully, I’ll be able to find us another good therapist that he’s willing to work with once we are settled. We were not making any progress without a therapist, in fact we were quickly devolving to a toxic living situation. Physically I’m still struggling with keeping my weight below 140. I’ve roller coastered from 160 to 120 the entire 2 years. I’m currently back up to 157 but hoping to start the downward slide again with the move and increased activity. I stopped dying my hair in Dec 2016 and let my silver shine. I’m really happy with all the white I have. I’ve maintained my healthy eating habits and just have to stay on a regular work out routine. Most of my chronic health issues are being controlled well but my pain from arthritis is getting much worse. I was supposed to go back to physical therapy but the move has that being postponed until we’re in Ga. The kiddo is doing great! She and I have worked out our issues and are now closer than ever before. It is a huge relief for me to feel like she understands the reasons for some of the harder choices I had to make in her life. It’s great getting to be the cool Disney mom and friend. I’m extremely proud of how well she has handled all the things thrown at her over the last few years. It took a long time for me to adjust to not being there with her all the time but she has done amazingly well. She’s very excited about the property we are buying and us being closer again. We are super excited about our new place. We’re getting our own little slice of heaven with 45+ acres of a wooded plateau, a 3200 sq. ft. ranch home, barn and old farm house. The house was built in 1988 where the old farm house used to sit. The old farm house was moved a few acres away to its current spot further in the woods with the barn between it and the house. The house sits on 2 acres shaded by 100+ year old pecan and black walnut trees. The back yard is already cross fenced and has 2 separate chicken coops plus a larger one at the barn. There are fig, pear and peach trees to one side of the back yard. The horses have a 10 acre field with another 10-15 acres of woods to roam. Our piece is just a chunk out of the larger estate of over 200 acres so we know we have a large buffer for many years to come. There’s a ton of work to be done to clean out dead fall, over grown brush, shrubs to move and repair fences and gates to be able to move the horses there. The kiddo is only about 30 minutes away. My mom is 2 and half hours. My favorite aunt, cousins and the horses are just 8-10 miles away. I’ve got several ideas to get the land working for us immediately ranging from enrolling what acreage we can in conservation programs, solar power, selective tree cutting, to a rain water reclamation system to irrigate blueberry, blackberry, willow and evergreen plantings. Ultimately, we want to turn the old farm house into a multipurpose event space where the Viking can brew, we could have our family reunions, holiday parties as well as doing events and short term rentals with a bedroom or 2. We want the barn to be multipurpose with a tack room for gear and feed, a coop for larger fowl we want to raise (pea fowl, pheasant and quail), a brew facility, a workshop, storage and project space for me. When we started looking for places in Ga to retire on we were hoping to get 20-30 acres and a 3000 sq ft house but we knew it was going to be hard to find. This place was the first house we looked at. It is an estate that has been sitting for almost 4 years because the heirs didn’t want to split the house from the land. We suspect the it will be many more years before they are able to sell the other 170 acre L shaped piece to the right and behind our corner. There’s no road access and it is all woods. The new listing agent happened to be in our agent’s office and heard what we were looking for. He was able to convince the heirs that it was a good idea to split out the house and some land rather than waiting for it all to sell. The house has geothermal heating and air with an automatic propane back up generator. You feel like you have walked onto a Brady Bunch set house when you walk through and see all the intercoms on the walls with cassette tape players…lol…There’s a big slate fireplace in the living room and the porches are all also slate. We found a huge pile of more slate in the back yard. The other floors are pretty parquet hardwood in great shape. There are 3 full bathrooms and 2 huge bedrooms with several other rooms that we will use for each of us an office, the gym, a sunroom and mud room for the pets, plus a laundry room and screened in back porch that I love!! There’s some electrical issues and water damage from clogged gutters that will have to be handled immediately. The master bathroom will have to be redone due to a leak but I really hated the jet tub and shower anyway so I’m kind of glad that we will get a new master bath. The Viking and I haven’t done much of anything other than a few date nights, lots of concerts, good local trips on Chief (Indian motorcycle with side car), the movings, medical and him traveling for work. Life has really been great even without the sex. Maybe I’m just getting old. We went to a local club a few times and we tried going to a few house parties but I just wasn’t interested or felt like it was a good fit. We’ve started talking more about it now that we’re talking more but we both are leery of reopening ourselves and our marriage. Two different couples we know are having serious issues related to the lifestyle and although we agree that in theory polyamory sounds fabulous, in reality, it doesn’t seem to work very well for anyone we know. I fantasize about having another relationship with a woman but I’m not really sure it will ever go beyond fantasy again. I guess only time will tell. What is happening in your life lately? So what have I missed here in Blogland? How are all my favorite pervs doing? Be safe and stay fun! Kisses, Queen of the Amazon Pygmy Fuck Beasts Formerly known as the Viking’s Nympho  Kisses, LA    |
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So glad to see you back here -- hope to see more blogs from you.
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Welcome back. And Ga has been quite boring since you've been gone. LOL - hoping you are back on the mend.
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Hey stranger. I'm so glad I accidentally came across you  I know it's been a few months since you checked in here, but hopefully you come back around."Everything in moderation, including moderation" - Oscar Wilde
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So nice to see you back ... You've been missed 😘 Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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8/11/2018 2:39 pm |
Welcome home, Peach! It's nice to see you blogging again.
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Hey there, welcome back. It HAS been a long time... just a "few" things have changed here lol! Sounds like you have an incredibly rich and full calendar, looking forward to reading more of you again!
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Welcome back... and welcome home! I do hope to see more posts sweetheart. I've missed them! Thoughts from the Garden...
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Happy to have found your blog, my lady ... And for the skillful way you are weathering the adversities Take care - P
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