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Chance Knight Encounters and M&M Fun!
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Chance Knight Encounters and M&M Fun! Chance Encounters of the Knight Kind and Fun Bag of M&M I’ve been so damn busy the last few weeks I haven’t had time to keep you guys up to date on the goings on around here. On the Viking Triad front things got very heated and pissy the past week plus. The Mistress sent me an email that said: “Every week when we talk I ask you towards the end of the conversation if there is anything else you’d like to talk about and you invariably say no or some permutation thereof. The Viking tells me the inverse.” Which to me says I’m a liar. The Viking and mistress swear that was not AT ALL what she meant but no one I’ve asked sees any other way of taking what she wrote and I think she did it to get a rise out of me which I should have ignored. I don’t deal well with being called a liar especially not being called a liar by my husband’s mistress. I fired off a couple of emails basically taking off the gloves I’d been using when dealing with her and laying out the context under which the conversation between myself and the Viking took place as well as putting all the shit she didn’t want to deal with out on the table. Like the fact that it seems that if I’m within a few hours drive of where she and the Viking are spending alone time then it isn’t “special” alone time for her. Or that I can’t seem to get a straight answer from her on anything. She doesn’t want to be secondary she wants to be a dual-primary but she can’t explain what that actually looks like to her or what the difference is. I spent the last 3 months playing what the Viking calls “politics of dancing”, otherwise known as tiptoe around the Mistress’s feeling or your husband will hate you! Quite frankly I was fucking fed up and still am with her emotionally needy, whiny, overly sensitive can’t give a straight fucking answer to save her life bullshit and I told her so in the nicest way I knew how. Which to her meant I was being “emotionally abusive”. I truly laughed my ass off at that and had to fight really hard not to show her exactly what a psycho jealous emotionally abusive wife would do to her. It was an exceedingly appealing fantasy to totally fuck her life up just to show her what abusive was. In the end I said my piece she sent tons of emails telling me nothing useful and as of late last week I told her I was taking a break from the whole damn mess. Frankly, if she can’t figure out how to talk to me like a normal person and answer some pretty straight forward fucking questions then I’m done with her. Her overly emotionally needy shit will get old eventually. I’m already sick and tired of her and I haven’t even met her yet. I can’t for the life of me understand why the Viking is willing to put up with it. Something good did come out of it all though. In the midst of her whining about how emotionally abusive I was being to her she made the Viking realize that he was completely dictating to me how all this was going to work. I had no choices, no voice, no input and it was her pointing it out that made him realize it. Of course she was only pointing it out in context of him not giving her equal say but it made him realize that compared to me she’s had a lot more options and input. If nothing else she has a very easy vote with her feet. In the meantime I took my therapists advice and took a time out from any contact with her. Tomorrow will be a week and I like it so much I think I’m going to continue my radio silence indefinitely. On other fronts, my non-profit has been crazy busy with picking-up and dropping-off families moving in and out of our area with large pets. I spent the entire day from 5am until 4pm on a pick-up in Milan. I was exhausted but it is so gratifying to see the love of a pup and their owner when they finally get here safe and are reunited. Not to mention that I love getting to meet all the new pups coming to our area. We are slowly starting to get more volunteers and hope to have some new officer volunteers soon. My last remaining BFF here in Italy and I went to lunch last Monday to the next major city over that has a Lush store. Ladies if you haven’t discovered Lush hair, body and make-up I highly recommend you check them out. Their products are all natural, smell, feel and work amazingly! I originally started using them because the Italian friend that went with Lil Bit and me to Florence and Rome last summer loved the store and I like good smelling bath stuff. Then I discovered that they have henna hair color and I was trying to avoid chemicals while I was pregnant. I got hooked on the daytime moisturizer with SPF and their shampoo. Each time I went they gave me more free samples of something else I fell in love with and now I’ve converted my BFF too (let’s call her Meme). Anyway, another friend of hers met us there for lunch and we had a most interesting conversation about being poly, swinging, being bi and sharing. Meme apparently decided she wanted me to fuck her and her husband. I swear I thought I was going to choke on my Bellini right there at the table. Don’t get me wrong! Meme and her hubby Mick are a fabulously good looking couple and I have had many a fantasy about being in that sandwich. On the other hand we’d all also talked about being worried that sex would screw up the best friendship that I have had in years, maybe ever. Between not wanting to ruin a great friendship and knowing her history with swinging/sharing was bad I had written anything happening off as a fantasy and moved on. So her announcement at lunch threw me for a loop. I told her I’d have to talk to the Viking and the Knight about it. Then the 3 of us (me, Meme & Mick) would need to sit down and have a very open honest discussion about it before I would agree. All the convo’s (except for the Knight) went smooth as glass. The Knight just never expressed his opinion either way when I asked for it so I took that as either he didn’t care or he wasn’t opposed. I still honestly expected it to fall by the wayside. Until I have more time to detail the actual encounter let’s just say that it is amazing when a Triad organically forms with people who all actually care about each other and want to have an open, honest loving relationship of three people. It was fucking-fan-tabulous!!!! I’m thrilled to have a sexy hot bi-gf for the first time in many, many years. The fact that she enjoys sharing her hubby is even better. I can’t wait to see them again. I teased her that it was fated that we were indeed GF’s when we both got our periods (several days early) the day after our initial Triad tryst. The Viking was totally turned on by the fact that while he was schlepping to an amusement park I was fucking M&M’s brains out and planning on doing it again ASAP. He in turn fucked the shit out of me and for the first time in many months it felt like the old Viking & his Nympho. That didn’t last long but as least it was a glimpse of hope that things will return to normal at some point. In the meantime I will keep looking for the people I need to love me, need me and want me while he doesn’t. I choose to be happy in spite of it all. I also ran into the Knight, purely by accident the day after his birthday. I think he was a little nervous about it but I hopefully set his mind at ease that I wasn’t going to embarrass him in front of his friends. Did I really want to drag his hot sexy ass off in the Z3 for some wild sex, yes but I refrained from anything other than a hug and a friendly reminder that if he didn’t tell me when, where he wanted to go at the end of the month I was going to plan a trip alone. I love that he is spontaneous but with a family, dogs and prices that increase the closer we get to the travel date I really have to plan ahead. I still haven’t heard so I don’t know if I’ll see him before June or not. I miss him because he really has a way of making me feel special, sexy and wanted, like when we are together his full focus is on me. He may not be interested at all when we aren’t together but we have such great conversations and sex that being with him is a true escape for me. The rest of the world melts away. I need more of that. I need to write about our last encounter too. It was another amazing night and getting to sleep late until the hotel called to kick us out…lol… Last week also saw the Viking taking Lil Bit for her first Italian ER trip to make sure her arm wasn’t broken. It wasn’t. Just a bad sprain and bone bruise that was splinted in a record time of only 2 hours! She got hit by a baseball in the arm and then fell on top of it. The Viking took her because I was practicing with a musician friend for this Friday’s Music Café. I got a call the next day from the music director for Music Café asking me if I’d be interested in being the featured artist for a Music Café. Apparently my musician friend was really impressed with my singing and suggested it to the director. Only problem is that the director wanted him to learn 2 or 3 new songs with me and practice them before Friday. No problem for me but the other band members couldn’t make it happen so I’m hoping by the June Music Café we’ll have it all worked out. In any case I was extremely flattered that he asked me. I just love to sing. I’m working the rest of this week. Music Café is Friday night and then we are taking a family trip to Cinque Terra for the long weekend. The Z3 is going to the shop tomorrow to have the new convertible top put on and should be like new when we get back from vacation. I’m down to 133 lbs and pants are starting to fall off me. Numerous people have noticed the weight loss so I’m really pleased and hope I can keep it up for another 10 ish or so lbs. I finally got enough time to go pick up all of my bloodwork that has to be done for the IVF clinic but the nurse wouldn’t give me a copy. She said the OB/GYN left a note that they were not to release the reports until she had a chance to talk to me about them. The reports had lots of numbers highlighted and circled but since they are all in Italian I have no clue what was out of whack and I’m scared shitless about it. I go in next Tuesday to see the OB/GYN and get the results so we will see. I hope you all have a fabulous Memorial Day. Remember the reason we celebrate. Say a prayer for those who gave all and the families they left behind as well as those who serve and the families who love them. Take care and love each other well. Kisses, The Nympho in Need  Kisses, LA    |
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Absolutely love this picture. Is unbelievably sexy and sensual...!!! 
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Very sexy photo. Kisses
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GOOD
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Jealous!...except for the drama part but you handled it well!
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I am totally thrilled that you stood up to the shrewish mistress...she sounds like a serious twat. That being said...you look lovely my darling...please do not lose any of the voluptuousness that makes you so desirable and positively beautiful! Good sex looks great on you! Smooches!
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yay to shutting her down...sounds like you went above and beyond in trying to accommodate. I had a similar situation in a past relationship - I called the woman Crazy Pants. She used to fuck with me all the time...and the BF denied it. I finally had enough. It was a good lesson (both her and him) in paying attention to what people do, not what they say. I'm so glad you are finding fun! After all the drama, that must feel like sinking into a feather bed!!! And, as always, absolutely gorgeous pic! xoxo Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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You sound so happy and it makes me smile! I'm glad to hear you said your piece with this Mistriss...how I'd love to slap her...lol. Wouldnt solve anything but hey it would feel damn good right? So many wonderful sexcapades you're having  you really must tell us one day! And I happen to look forward to your posts, whether they be long or short!  Take care...Have fun!!
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L ~ Please excuse my admonishment below to a blogger whose sole purpose in the blogs is to be an attention seeking menus. BTW ~ congrats on the weight loss ... I'm sure you're wearing it well.  Cum Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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Excuse me Mr. Knucklehead but please do not piss on other blogs because you're an unhappy misogynist pig, who is masquerading as a straight man in a delusional world. Your attention seeking, negative agenda is not fooling anyone. Your multiple troll/fake profiles are glaringly obvious and truly pathetic in nature. We all see how you GOAD YOURSELF and TALK TO YOURSELF within your blog, and others using your troll/fake profiles. Please clearly hear my message to you. I am admonishing your continued misogynist, delusional, immature, attention seeking, antagonizing, victim like behavior within the blogging community, not you. So before you cry, yet again how you are the victim of bullying or being attacked, hear me clearly ... It is your OWN ACTIONS & BEHAVIOR that are being called onto the carpet. It is not you whom are unwelcome within the blogging community, it is your continued actions and behavior that are unwelcome in the blogging community. Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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wow look at your sexy legs baby!! Open relationships are hot!! I wish you lived by me!!!!!!
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Firstly ... beautiful picture. Secondly ... I'm glad you voiced your thoughts & feelings to the mistress. If radio silence makes you happy with her, by all means continue to be silent. He created this mess, not you. Thirdly ... IMHO ... she is not looking for a triad or poly or anything other type of relationship with your man EXCEPT a one on one relationship no matter what EITHER of them say to your face. Fourthly ... please continue to enjoy doing whatever and whomever makes you happy. Fifthly ... Is a child the right thing at this time ? Sixthly ... Please protect yourself emotionally & financially as much as you can. Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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If you don't want to read someone's blog, don't, but no need to leave a snide comment.
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i am so glad you were able to finally speak your mind
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