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The Nympho Meets Captain Save-A-Ho
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The Nympho Meets Captain Save-A-Ho Fabulous Fucking Friday For Freaking Being Alone! This week was really busy for me but busy in a very good way. I got lots of things accomplished and felt like I was productive. Monday was furniture rearranging, appointment changing and adjusting the schedule for the reality bitch slap we got dealt. Tuesday was chiro, errands, shopping for baby shower gifts, costumes ordering, fall fest shopping and spending time with Lil Bit, then Scott & Deb. Wednesday was traveling and getting some stuff done for my Viking. Thursday was helping my sister with some labels and printing stuff for the baby shower and some online stuff that she was struggling with, more errands with the phone and RX’s and trying to give some quality time to the animals here that have been neglected while I’ve been so damn busy the last few days. Today I had to go back to Columbus for a follow up chiro appointment. My lower back has been giving me fits and my chiro lectured me about getting my ass back in there this week. He wants me back in another week to be sure things are clearing up. It’s been a long time since I had this bad of a flare up. I decided to spend a little time with Lil Bit again since I was going to be down there. In the meantime, I’ve gotten a record number of e-mails. Many of which were really sweet and very nice. I answered them all, even the shitty ones. I haven’t heard much from the initial potential FWB lately. I was especially impressed with two e-mails and profiles I got this week. I have been texting with both guys and made tentative plans to have drinks with one tomorrow night. Then I was really pleasantly surprised when the favorite invited me out for dinner tonight. I didn’t think we were going to be able to meet until sometime next week. It also always impresses me when I don’t have to spell out that a public meeting and date is required to start with. I texted my Viking about the FWB interviews and he was encouraging. I’m a bit conflicted about the whole thing but we’ve talked about it and agreed that looking now with his approval and help is much better than waiting. So I headed out to spend a couple of hours with Lil Bit and then meet the 1st FWB candidate. Lil Bit and I had fun. We went to my chiro appointment then to get her dinner. After ice-cream we stopped by our favorite park to feed the geese and ducks. I dropped her off at home and headed downtown to meet my date. I really liked that he had the right mix of confidence to pursue me without being pushy. He was direct and honest in his communication with me without being abrupt or rude. He was willing to share personal details of his life upfront without feeling like it was a burden. He doesn’t take himself too seriously yet is very confident. His profile is well written has face and body pics but no dick pics. He knows what he wants, puts it out there but has some flexibility. I had good vibes about the meeting but always try to go in with no expectations. He wasn’t shy about telling me he found me attractive but wasn’t a perv about requesting sexy pics. I like that. Yes I know that he’s seen the naked pics on my profile and that is precisely why I appreciate that he didn’t request more. He asked to see my face and that was impressive. I pulled up to the Thai place he suggested to see him waiting for me outside. He looked exactly like his pics, hot and sexy. I was immediately comfortable around him. The energy between us was really relaxed and fun. We talked and laughed over dinner. I could tell that he was really ok with me talking about my relationship with the Viking and that put me even more at ease with him. He has a great sense of humor. He was really open about himself, his life and it was really easy to share stories with him. We have lots in common; he grew up riding horses, used to have a Great Dane and a boxer, has a bike, similar unconventional views on relationships and sex, etc. I really think he and the Viking will get along famously as well. That is a huge bonus for me to have a FWB that can be friends with us both. He reminds me of my Viking in so many ways, which I’m sure is part of the attraction. Or maybe it’s all just chemicals and<b> pheromones...</font></b>lol…They are not alike in any physical way, they are totally different looking. They are alike in their thinking, their way of treating women with care, respect and kindness and their good natured charm. They are both white knights and too sweet for their own good when it comes to women. His friends call him Captain Save-A-Ho…lmao…and I think that his nickname here will be Capt. SAH. He’s a really laid back, down to earth, nice guy. He also suffers from the same affliction that my Viking does, women fall in love with him constantly. He tells them not to, sets the parameters but they still do. I told him he was safe with me since I was already in love with my Viking. After dinner we walked around downtown listening to the live bands, talking more and got a coffee. He has a bike and I wished I’d brought my helmet. Next time, I will. I’ve really gotten spoiled riding and having a FWB with a bike is a huge bonus. I haven’t had a first date that was so easy and fun since I met my Viking. It was really great. We sat on a bench and talked more. We were accosted by a crazy Vietnam Vet which he gallantly shielded me from. He walked me back to the truck and kissed me. He’s a great kisser which is always a good sign. Neither of us could spend much more time out so we parted company but made plans to see each other again soon. Hopefully, we’ll get together again in the next few days. That date will be even better I’m sure! I left really excited that this might be the start of a great friendship and benefits for us all! You know what the best part of the night was? Being able to call my Viking and share my excitement with him without fearing that he would be upset or judge me. For the first time in my life, I can just be me without fear of how that looks. He was happy to hear the excitement in my voice and that I had a fun date. He’s equally excited that I may have found someone who will not only be a great FWB for me but sounds like an interesting and fun person for him to get to know as well. Plus there’s a certain comfort level in him knowing who I’ll be spending time with while we are apart. Building that comfort level now will help us both deal with the time apart. He and I talked a long time tonight. We also had our first webcam session! That was fucking hot. Then we talked and texted some more. It’s really amazing to me that we can so completely share everything with each other. Even when we are apart we stay so in tune and connected with each other. Most people can’t understand how we can be so completely in love with each other but still be perfectly fine with adding other people into our lives. It’s hard to grasp that adding other people compliments and builds our relationship. We both wish we were together during this but it’s not practical. Since we can’t it’s a good time for me to be interviewing and starting a FWB. So this busy week ended on a really high note. I’m going to veg out tomorrow and try to get some house cleaning done. I have the baby shower on Sunday and may go for a bike ride with my Uncle, if not then hopefully a bike ride with Capt. SAH early next week. I need to go out and ride the horses too. I hope everyone is having as great a weekend as mine started out. Take care and love each other well! Kisses, LeeAnn  Kisses, LA    |
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You look sexy in that outfit. Kisses
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The story does seem a little made up... I just can't believe that a man like your so called Captain SAH would just let you leave like that. He doesn't sound real. You are very well written and your Viking is a very lucky man. Have a great day.
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Glad you had such a good week.  And good dates are great to have. Good luck with the Captain.
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Sounds like you have a great FWB in the making darlin! Enjoy!  Thoughts from the Garden...
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Sounds promising LeeAnn. Hope it all works out for you. BehindMyBlues
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I am so happy for you Finding a FWB can be an arduous process but it's so rewarding when you connect with someone. Hopefully the next date will prove even more promising xoxoxo ***
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10/8/2011 1:44 am |
so you like to ride huh??
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10/7/2011 11:43 pm |
you have such a nice body
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