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The (vanilla) spouse question
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Perhaps you could watch a bdsm video together that would motivate her into putting her curiosity into action. 
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A male posting as a woman, who would have thunk it...........
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Good question i have a very vanilla spouse! as hard as I try cannot get her to even try? I feel you pain  i myself want to try almost anything and twice if I like it or not
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A male posting as a woman, who would have thunk it...........
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Thanks for reading and sharing your inputs. This is not a one week thing, she has had more than enough time to do her research. I have give her enough material to learn more about it. And I agree with you, this might not be her priority, which, in that case, a good part of our relationship is not among her priorities. And perhaps I should consider stepping back from it. I don't understand the part of your comment about helping with house work. Is it my impression or this was just a sexist comment, assuming I am a man and she is a woman and she is responsible for housework and the man should help? Well, I am a woman, she is a woman. We are both women, for starters. Second, housework should not be the responsibility of one person (woman) and the other would just "help". It should be the responsibility of every person in a household. At least the way I see it. Anyhow, house work is not a problem with us anymore. She has learned to contribute with housework now., which I appreciate
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Good question i have a very vanilla spouse! as hard as I try cannot get her to even try? I feel you pain i myself want to try almost anything and twice if I like it or notOh, well...
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Sabes? As vezes ter paciencia da frutos Ensina o nas alturas certas e vais ver k td muda! Nao estejas a espera que as coisas aparecam de um tipo que nao esta habituado! Faz como no circo... Quando ele faz bem da lhe um ''doce'' Vais ver que ele aprende rapido.... BEIJOS... Espero ter ajudado
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Thank you, I was not offended. Actually, we talked again about it and we agreed on sort of study plan/schedule, with regular tasks to be completed. She argues she is very interested, but has a slower rhythm and didn't realize BDSM stuff were THAT serious. It's been two years since she first said she would learn more about it, and she has done some work, but really, not as much as she could have with all this time. It is more that she didn't take it as seriously as I do. Thanks seem promising, and we are excited to see how things will go.
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