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Why???  

stars_light4U 66F
4636 posts
3/3/2016 6:49 am
Why???

Ok..
I made a "brilliant" observation this morning...lol

Women feel obligated to show their body on this site.. and men do not...

Every post by a woman has some body part exposed most of the time...The guys come along and enjoy it like a porno magazine..

Guys don't feel they have to show their bodies from every possible angle..

Women show their bodies to get men to read their blogs..and... because they are exhibitionists that love attention and need attention to feel good about themselves..
Plus, I'm sure it turns themselves on to show their bodies.

Men do not...lol...Men just say.. "Meh.. Like me or Leave me.. Your choice"..lol
Truly awesome...Men have it right, I think...

Personally, I have stopped needing to show my body on here..
I am actually quite happy to blog with the same pic on here as usual...
I get quite a few readers...I get a few emails...
And.. I'm not a man...
I just enjoy blogging.. I enjoy answering comments.. and I enjoy reading the blogs of my friends....

It IS possible to just blog.. have fun.. make friends<b>...meet friends...
</font></b>This is after all...a place to meet people...

What kind of people are YOU trying to meet...??





Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
3/3/2016 6:58 am

would tend to agree with you.

I think one can get a better insight on someone by following their blog on here, rather than going through profile after profile.

Most everyone is pretty easy going and has a good sense of humor as well.

Those i think are the best people to try and meet.


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
3/3/2016 7:04 am

    Quoting  :

Hi.. thankyou for commenting on my blog.. You're welcome here any time..
I guess if the person if frantic for sex..then.. only looks matter...


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
3/3/2016 7:07 am

    Quoting  :

I actually am here for adult.. friend.. finder...Not for the passion site...
My computer won't let me open the first site...
Make friends.. the sex will follow.. and perhaps a longer lasting relationship...
Who knows...
Welcome to my blog.. nice to read you..


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
3/3/2016 7:10 am

    Quoting sphxdiver:
    would tend to agree with you.

    I think one can get a better insight on someone by following their blog on here, rather than going through profile after profile.

    Most everyone is pretty easy going and has a good sense of humor as well.

    Those i think are the best people to try and meet.
I'm guessing a little "window dressing" makes our blogs more appetizing... I just can't be bothered any more...lol..lol
I like humor.. and I like to meet people that are good people with a sense of humor...


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


Golly06 71M
1932 posts
3/3/2016 8:01 am

Interesting post, but a lot of generalizations about men and women that I would not make. For one, I don't even pretend to know the first thing about women or why they do things. Secondly, I cannot speak for all members of my sex. One counter-point, I visited your blog and you don't have a naked picture to attract me. I can see your point, though. I am more into just enjoying people rather than projecting or questioning motives, so you may be entirely correct.

To answer your query, the people I like to meet are: intelligent, fun, pleasant, kind, positive, realistic...if they are naked, sensual, and sexual, that is great, too.


1bighammer1000 59M
4304 posts
3/3/2016 11:45 am

I gave up on looking for anything here, I enjoy the blogs and reading the ideas, kind of a deeper sort of people watching. Ha ha but I still enjoy the lines of a sexy female.

Anything worth doing is worth doing right


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
3/3/2016 12:37 pm

I see the site as an adult-friend-finder......and I have found several! It is true that many are seeking the "sex" factor butt I also see many are just here for the blogging. I'm not seeking sex or even a relationship other than "friendship"!
My posting has slowed down mainly because of the glitches and problems the site dishes out, but I do keep up with the blogs I follow. I also got several off-sight emails to keep in touch in case this site fails or I decide to leave.

How do you like my body hair????


JJLooken 56M/46F
366 posts
3/3/2016 10:24 pm

I may not be attracted to certain pictures. But I don't the person for putting it up. They had the Nerve to put a Picture up.

We are looking for a little or this and some of that. We have No real set in stone person or people we we looking for. Just good old down to earth people is a start.


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
3/4/2016 12:30 pm

    Quoting Smile_a_Minute:
    Having no pic on this site is bad news. Choosing a pic is challenging. It should be revealling, but not too much. I like photos of clothed (partially) women--cupped breasts, that sort of thing. Your photo's pretty awesome!

    What kind of people am I trying to meet? I'm discovering that by reading blogs
Thankyou!


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
3/4/2016 12:31 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks LALA..
Honesty, indeed, is the tricky part...


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
3/4/2016 12:32 pm

    Quoting 1bighammer1000:
    I gave up on looking for anything here, I enjoy the blogs and reading the ideas, kind of a deeper sort of people watching. Ha ha but I still enjoy the lines of a sexy female.
I bet you do...lol


Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
3/4/2016 12:33 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    I see the site as an adult-friend-finder......and I have found several! It is true that many are seeking the "sex" factor butt I also see many are just here for the blogging. I'm not seeking sex or even a relationship other than "friendship"!
    My posting has slowed down mainly because of the glitches and problems the site dishes out, but I do keep up with the blogs I follow. I also got several off-sight emails to keep in touch in case this site fails or I decide to leave.

    How do you like my body hair????
The glitches.. seem to have slowed down as far as my blog is concerned.. not going to jinx it and say they are fixed..... nope.

I like your fur... a bit much for me tho... lol



Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


stars_light4U 66F
3808 posts
3/4/2016 12:34 pm

    Quoting JJLooken:
    I may not be attracted to certain pictures. But I don't the person for putting it up. They had the Nerve to put a Picture up.

    We are looking for a little or this and some of that. We have No real set in stone person or people we we looking for. Just good old down to earth people is a start.
thanks for commenting..
Good luck on your search!!




Looking forward to a good year ahead!!

Stars_light4U


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