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Faking Orgasms..........  

steamyandsexybi 51F
2539 posts
2/21/2007 5:39 pm

Last Read:
12/9/2009 2:29 pm

Faking Orgasms..........

Study Says "Over 72% of Women Regularly FAKE Their Orgasms"

According to the 2000 Orgasm Survey (did you know there was a 2000 Orgasm Survey?!), 72% of women have faked an orgasm at least once in their current or most recent relationship.

And more shocking still are these facts:

52% of women are unsatisfied with their sex life.

30% of women have fantasized about cheating on their lover.

Only 17% of women will have an orgasm during sex.

Sex drive amongst women is reported to have increased by 9% in the last 12 years. 9% more women also desire or have sex at least once a day.

80% of women would rather just cuddle with their men than have sex.


So it's pretty clear that women aren't enjoying sex - but why!?

The reason is simple: women don't enjoy sex because they aren't having regular orgasms! How often would you want to have sex if you never got off?

So what it comes down to is this: If you want to please your woman, you have to learn how to give her orgasms! There's no getting around that fact, unless you want to risk losing her to someone else who knows how to!

After all, if you aren't keeping her satisfied then who will?

Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Why?

Guys: Have you ever been with a woman who you thought faked one? BE HONEST! (admitting to it wont kill your ego....come on.....)
Did it bother you?



steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/21/2007 7:09 pm

    Quoting  :

She found most sexual things to be "dirty?" (Oh, man~ her and I wouldnt get along. lol)

The 'dirtier' the better!!


kisskiss6868 48M/50F  
4266 posts
2/21/2007 8:15 pm

I have faked them in the past but, not in at least 10 years. I haven't had to fake any. The hubby does a really good job! I am also one of those lucky women who can have an orgasm by penetration. Some women can't. I don't have them that way every time but most of the time.

What about you.....do you fake them? Somehow I just can't see you doing that.

{=}


{=}kisses, hugs, and sweet soft licks{=}


Cancer6962 61M
267 posts
2/21/2007 10:23 pm

I try to be a Gentleman ... the Lady cums first...

Good thing I can breathe through my ears.

I eat'n


GSV 60M

2/21/2007 11:46 pm

Guys: Have you ever been with a woman who you thought faked one? No.
Did it bother you? It wouldn't bother me if she did.

Love, Light, Laughter, Leave a Legacy,

Greg


LadyGrayLeopard 63F
26369 posts
2/22/2007 6:23 am

Did fake at one point, when under 20 or so...

But no need anymore, been seeing for more than 25 only guys who know what they are doing!!!

And as a multi-orgasmic squirter, need those cums with hot nectar... and easy for the man to see too that I am not faking...

And feeling really sorry for those women who cannot enjoy the basic pleasures of life like good sex with orgasms. But can understand it too: if no experience of real and good sex life with a partner willing to please the woman too, how can she even ask for more!!!
But once they reach those orgasms, know how they feel, the guys are in 'trouble', and good so...

As sex is a MUTUAL PLEASURE.



rm_StormRS 48M
5635 posts
2/22/2007 8:39 am

One of my exes faked often. I found this out after we were not together anymore. She was very inexperienced when I met her, and she didn't realize it at the time, but she was a squirter. She would get close to orgasm, feel like she was going to pee herself, and then fake it to end things before she "peed". We had a good laugh about it a couple of years later!

Aside from that, I'm sure there have been times where a partner has faked, but none that I could specifically point out as I knew it was happening. It would bother me to find out, because I would feel like I didn't do my job. I'm not satisfied unless I've satsfied my partner!

If you should die before me, ask if you can bring a friend........


Baltasar45 63M
9207 posts
2/22/2007 12:51 pm

I want honesty and tell them NEVER to fake for my sake, and I don't think anyone has.

<- Profile photo courtesy of Bonding with coworkers


Sir_Thomas_ 96M

2/24/2007 11:31 am

I can't tell you if anyone has ever faked it with me. I can't you, because I don't know.


younggun14616 38M

2/24/2007 1:42 pm

It's insulting to me if they feel the need to fake it. If they aren't getting off I'd rather have honesty so I can change things up and make it work


EveAndSteve 54M/51F
102 posts
2/25/2007 6:39 am

When in doubt, I always ask. Your partner shouldn't lie to you, because its her pleasure too, so I occasionally say..."Did you make it?", when Eve says "Yes", then it's time for mine!


leegs5555 62M

2/25/2007 5:50 pm

if they did they did a great job..maybe in and after high school.

i am more of a pro at it now!!


Michael_IG65 59M

2/25/2007 6:37 pm

I have faked an orgasm .. of course, only possible with a condom on... (but that was 20 years ago)

I dated a woman who faked her orgasms with me when I was in my 20's.. it felt like soap opera sex .... after sliding my fingers inside her to see if she was contracting (and then caling her out onit), she pretty much knew her faking was not a good thing....

honesty ... honesty ....

oh yeah, I didn't fess up when I faked .... lol


Michael_IG65 59M

2/25/2007 6:38 pm

by the way ... great pic on this post!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:13 pm

    Quoting  :

36% of the time, huh? LOL!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:16 pm

    Quoting kisskiss6868:
    I have faked them in the past but, not in at least 10 years. I haven't had to fake any. The hubby does a really good job! I am also one of those lucky women who can have an orgasm by penetration. Some women can't. I don't have them that way every time but most of the time.

    What about you.....do you fake them? Somehow I just can't see you doing that.

    {=}
kissy,
Yes...I admit it...I have faked a few orgasms in my time. But I had GOOD reason for it! After I realized that I just wasnt into the sex halfway through it, and when I just wanted it to be over with (the boring sex), I faked it...just so he would hurry up and get off of me! It got to the point where I couldnt tolerate the boring stuff no more! lol

And, YES~ I, too can have an orgasm through penetration!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:17 pm

    Quoting Cancer6962:
    I try to be a Gentleman ... the Lady cums first...

    Good thing I can breathe through my ears.
I bet you say that to all the girls!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Yep...it all comes down to "communication."

Thanks for the visit!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:20 pm

    Quoting LadyGrayLeopard:
    Did fake at one point, when under 20 or so...

    But no need anymore, been seeing for more than 25 only guys who know what they are doing!!!

    And as a multi-orgasmic squirter, need those cums with hot nectar... and easy for the man to see too that I am not faking...

    And feeling really sorry for those women who cannot enjoy the basic pleasures of life like good sex with orgasms. But can understand it too: if no experience of real and good sex life with a partner willing to please the woman too, how can she even ask for more!!!
    But once they reach those orgasms, know how they feel, the guys are in 'trouble', and good so...

    As sex is a MUTUAL PLEASURE.


Mutual pleasure, yes...but for me- I dont have sex all the time JUST to GET that orgasm. I dont need to have one every single time or with every encounter. I LOVE being penetrated deep and hard...so as long as I'm satisfied that way, I'm happy!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:22 pm

    Quoting  :

Be Real, J! LOL!!

All you men KNOW you develop some kind of complex if "she" didnt cum! You know it! LOL! LOL!!!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:23 pm

    Quoting  :

Need some help w/that memory?


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:24 pm

    Quoting rm_StormRS:
    One of my exes faked often. I found this out after we were not together anymore. She was very inexperienced when I met her, and she didn't realize it at the time, but she was a squirter. She would get close to orgasm, feel like she was going to pee herself, and then fake it to end things before she "peed". We had a good laugh about it a couple of years later!

    Aside from that, I'm sure there have been times where a partner has faked, but none that I could specifically point out as I knew it was happening. It would bother me to find out, because I would feel like I didn't do my job. I'm not satisfied unless I've satsfied my partner!
So....what youre saying is that you get into golden showers? Hmmmm? LOL!

Just kidding!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:27 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm not 40 yet but lately while masterbating,(due to me not being able to find someone decent here, lol) I noticed that it doesnt take much for me to cum. I also realized that the things that go through my imagination while masterbating has been ALOT more freaky too....maybe thats got alot to do with it. Hmmm....


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:29 pm

    Quoting Baltasar45:
    I want honesty and tell them NEVER to fake for my sake, and I don't think anyone has.
NEVER say "NEVER!"


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:30 pm

    Quoting  :



My friend....I think you may have issues then!


steamyandsexybi 51F
2783 posts
2/25/2007 7:31 pm

    Quoting  :

Why yes, they do Sir! (in my case, theyre not always necessary)


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