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The Right Way to Have a Threesome (or Foursome, etc...)!
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The Right Way to Have a Threesome (or Foursome, etc...)! I found this online and it sounded logical and it gives great advice. I thought everyone who is thinking about or fantasizing about a threesome would like to know this information!! See ya, VF  The Right Way to Have a Threesome (or Foursome, etc. ...) But it’s not all gloom and doom. If you keep a few caveats and pitfalls in mind, multi-party sex or sexual play can be both fun and fulfilling. •Make Sure Everyone Is on the Same Page Communication is always vital in sex and relationships, and when multiple people are involved it’s even more important. Make sure everyone is participating for the right reasons and that everyone feels comfortable putting on the breaks at any time. It’s much better to stop and snuggle than to go through with something that you’ll feel awkward (or worse) about later. •Set Clear Rules and Expectations Not every encounter needs to include penetrative sex (or any sex at all) to be a lot of fun. Set boundaries between each person who'll be playing. If there’s an established couple involved, make sure the new person is comfortable watching sex acts they might not be included in before moving ahead. If you bring in someone with a voyeuristic streak, this can be fantastic - but if it’s not a good fit they might just feel left out. •Make Sure Everyone Feels Welcome Speaking of feeling left out ... If a new person is joining an established couple make sure they feel welcome and included without ignoring your other partner to do so. Two people focusing on the third together can be sexy and fun and is a great way to let everyone take turns being the center of attention. •Don’t Forget to Play Safe When you’re excited about something, it’s tempting to just barrel ahead for fear of ruining the mood. But what really sets a mood is safety. If everyone feels comfortable and safe they can let go and enjoy themselves. Have gloves, condoms and dental dams handy. •Take Care of Aftercare Aftercare is important, even for vanilla play. Snuggles right after sex and a check-in the next day to make sure everyone is feeling good about what happened is a great way to keep friendships solid - and to help ensure your partners will come back for seconds.  “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64  |
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how about this one.... [image] “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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how about this one.... [image] [image] “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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You've posted some good advice. Frieendship is key with threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. 
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“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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ohh, a coach...that sounds good...he directs everyone. the towels and wipes and drinking water....sounds like a plan! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I am planning a threeway...and I thought this would benefit me! I don't want to be ignored or to have someone ignored! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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You've posted some good advice. Frieendship is key with threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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thanks...for your comments! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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Who could leave you out! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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