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Just so you know its not just the guys on here that can be full of shit
Posted:Aug 7, 2015 8:24 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2015 3:49 am
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Rarely come on here to bitch and moan. Have been in the "lifestyle" long enough to just look past most things and move on when necessary. But just a few minutes ago, I had a serious "grinds my gears" moment.

Was chatting with a female member in my area. We're both on the same horny wavelength so things seem to be moving in a positive direction. So I send my pic so she has an idea of what she looks like and I ask her to do the same.

She does but it's a very dark pic so I ask her if she has another. Not on her computer but her home she says. Okay so I ask of she's fine texting. She says no because of bad experiences which I totally understand. Then ask her if she has KIK or another way of communicating that she's comfortable with. And she then ills a Houdini on me

So my issues with the whole scenario are as follows. 1) I don't with someone she I have no idea what they look like and I don't expect the person panther other end to either. So it wasn't unrealistic to ask for a more clear lid before I chose to go forward.

2) why mention that you have pics "on your phone" then pretty much go right back and say that no you don't text. I have no problem sigh you wanting to keep your phone private. But why raise the possibility in the first place if it isn't an option

3) Ye Olde Houdini trick. Have I been guilty of it in the past? Yes. And I feel absolutely shittty for the times I have just vanished on someone because intrude to be a more respectful person than that. I don't do it anymore because try to be a more respectful person than that. So it does annoy me when you can't take the 10-15 seconds it would take to say "Sorry, not interested."

Anyway it is what it is. Attraction is one thing but people sit no manners are a complete turn off to me and I move on thinking that nothing of value was lost in my not meeting up with the person, except for my time. This is a pretty pointless blog. Just felt the need to vent a bit
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